Of Mount Forest, passed away surrounded by family, at the Louise Marshall Hospital on Monday, October 19, 2026 in his 92nd year. Donald was born on April 19, 1935, in Toronto. He spent much of his working life in the financial services industry, while also dedicating himself to raising his children on his own. Don had a lifelong passion for trains and took great pleasure in building and maintaining his model railway layouts. There was always a place in his home for his trains, a hobby that brought him countless hours of enjoyment. Following his retirement, Don had hoped to turn his passion into something more by opening a shop of his own. He is survived by his daughter, Susan (Donald); his sons, Richard (Sharon) and Bryan (Donna); his grandchildren, Donna, Jeffrey (Alyssa), Cheryl Ann, Amy, Anthony, Katelyn, Joshua and Marshall; great-grandchildren; Owen (Bailey), Cynthia, Gwendolyn, Wesley and Alivia, and nephews; Jason (Carrie), Jeremy (Heather), Ethan, Rylan, and Carleigh. He was predeceased by his father Harold C. Davis, mother LaDores M. Davis (née Lott), brother Kenneth A. Davis, wife Donna Jean Davis (née Batt), and daughter Cynthia L. Dawes (née Davis). A celebration of Don’s life will be held at the England Funeral Home, 294 Main Street South, Mount Forest on Saturday, November 7th from 2:00-4:00pm, with sharing of family memories at 2:30pm. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Don’s memory to the Louise Marshall Hospital Foundation. Online condolences and donations may be made at www.englandfuneralhome.com 

Unexpectedly, on September 22nd, 2026, in Nova Scotia, at the age of 65.  Kevin was the proud and loving father of Braylyn – being her Dad was everything to him.  Brother of Greg & Irene Cullen, Karen & Paul Zinn, Brian & Heather Cullen, Tracy & Rob MacLean; and uncle of Chris & Libby MacLean and Katie & Mason Bullivant. Predeceased by his parents John and Mary (nee Smith) Cullen. Kevin will be forever in the heart of Jennifer Cullen.  He had a lifelong love of music, motorsports, and B movies!  Kevin was best known for being President of Water Productions Corp. and host/producer of TV shows: PWCtv, GRRtv, SledSense, MXCulture and The Motorhead Traveler. He will be forever remembered for his huge personality with stories to tell from his worldwide adventures! Even with all of Kevin’s adventures and travels, his greatest joy and love was Braylyn. Cremation has taken place.  A Celebration of Kevin’s Life will be held at the Royal Canadian Legion, Branch 547, 1017 Robinson Street, Belle Ewart, Ontario on Saturday, December 5th, 2026 from 2pm-5pm.  Online condolences and memories can be shared at www.lgwallace.ca

72, of Hanover, passed away peacefully on October 30, 2026 at the South Bruce Grey Health Centre in Chesley, holding hands with his loving and devoted wife of 52 years and with his three children by his side. Andrew will be missed by his wife Sheila, his son Alex (Rosemary), his daughters Lisa (John) and Jillian (Mike), and eight grandchildren Michael, Connor, Fenton, Oliver, Everett, Serena, Isaac and James. His life was enriched by many incredible friends. Andrew met Sheila in 1973 and married within a few months. Their children were raised in Rockwood where he enjoyed being a part of the community. They moved to their dream home on Marl Lake to be closer to his furniture factory in Chesley and then recently moved to Hanover. Andrew will likely be most widely remembered as a successful entrepreneur. His most popular business was Crate Designs furniture. For nearly 40 years he enjoyed working with employees and colleagues from the furniture industry. The company was his pride and joy, his lifelong passion. He had a relentless and tireless work ethic and never met a problem he couldn’t solve or a job he couldn’t finish. He cared about quality and integrity and sustainability. He was proud to build furniture that would last a lifetime. He was especially grateful his son Alex choosing to work beside him. Andrew loved reading, sharing a laugh, a glass of wine with some good conversation, creating a beautiful garden, and watching the birds. He also enjoyed adventures visiting China, the Philippines and Korea in search of business opportunities. Travel took Andrew and Sheila to New Zealand to visit his sister Bridget & her family and across Canada, the Caribbean and the US for many trips along with cruises around the world. They enjoyed impromptu weekends in exotic locations like Buenos Aires. A very special thank you to his caregivers. Your support was immeasurable during the past few months. In accordance with Andrew’s wishes, no funeral or service will be held, consider donating to Habitat for Humanity.

Passed away Monday October 26, 2026 suddenly at home. He was born on January 11, 1947 in Brampton, Ontario. Brent leaves behind his dear wife, Donna Taylor, and his stepchildren, Stephanie and David Schill, and Aimee and Matthew Kustermans. He was a proud Poppa to Emma and Zak Rivard, Claire and Jarryd Davidson, Abby Schill and Devan Benoit, and Drew and Ava Kustermans, and Great Poppa to William Rivard. Predeceased by his parents Lorne and Phyllis Taylor. Brent retired from Pearson Airport in 2008 and soon made Palmerston his home. In retirement, he enjoyed golfing and spending winters in the south. For 57 summers, his second home on beautiful Clear Lake offered cherished friendships, life by the water and stunning sunsets. His family treasures memories of holidays together and time spent at the lake. The family thanks the Palmerston Dialysis team for their years of care and support, and the many other doctors who cared for Brent in his later years. To honour Brent’s wishes cremation has taken place. A private family service was held in James Street United Church, Palmerston. As expressions of sympathy donations to the Palmerston Hospital Foundation (Directed to Dialysis Unit) would be appreciated by the family, www.pdhfoundation.ca. Arrangements entrusted to the Heritage Funeral Home, Palmerston. 

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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Wayne Kenneth Garvin on October 26, 2026 at Wellington Hospice in Guelph, at the age of 77. His battle of Hodgkin’s Lymphoma Cancer over the last two years is finally over and peace has come. Wayne will be dearly missed by his loving wife Donna of forty years, his sons, David (Mandy), Adam (Fran), and Matthew (Thea) and his grandsons Peyton, Jesse, Noah and Aidan. Family was everything to Wayne and he was always happier when they were close. Wayne leaves behind his mother, Betty Garvin and his mother-in-law Ivy Marshall and in-laws Randy Marshall, and Beverly and Kevin Bessey. He had a special place in his heart for nieces Shelley, Cheryl, Krista and their families. Wayne was predeceased by his father Edward (1969) and his father in-law Fred Marshall (2021). Wayne loved life. He had a generous heart and was full of quick wit. He loved his home town of Elora and made friends wherever he traveled. His smile was contagious and one that lit up the room. Some might say he was a legend and as a son, husband, father, grandfather, uncle, great uncle, cousin, friend and neighbor, he will be deeply missed by many. Wayne retired from Blount Canada in Guelph in 2008, where he worked in the Tool Room for 35 years. Wayne loved to golf, ride his e-bike and chat to anyone that would listen. He loved to tell stories about being young and helping his Grandad at Drimmie’s Feed Mill.  In the early years, Wayne could be found at the arena coaching minor lacrosse teams. Later, he served on the Executive of the Elora Rocks and then moved on to coach the Elora Rockers Oldtimers Hockey Team. When he wasn’t coaching, he would be watching his boys and later his grandsons at their sport of choice. He rarely missed a game. Wayne’s favourite trips were on the southern beaches, Ireland, Portugal, BC and Newfoundland. A Celebration of Life will be held on Monday, November 23, 2026 from 6-9pm in the main hall of the Elora Legion. In lieu of flowers, donations in Wayne’s memory may be made to the future of Aboyne Rural Hospice. Cremation has taken place. A private family interment will be held at the Elora Cemetery. Arrangements are entrusted to the Graham A. Giddy Funeral Home. 

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It is with hearts full of gratitude for the time we shared that we announce the peaceful passing of Nancy (Nan) Faith Lee on October 29, 2026, at Wellington Terrace, at the age of 85. Nan was the beloved wife and best friend of the late William (Sonny) Lee (2013). She was a loving and devoted Mother to Jamie (Ronnie) Jackson, Becky (Tim) Pyke, Mindy (Terry) Kelloway, and Brett, as well as a cherished Grandmother of 13 and Great-Grandmother of 10. She was a loving sister to Lyn, and sister-in-law to Maureen (Robin), Carol (Earl), and Reagan. Nan is also survived by a number of nieces, nephews, and other family members. She is predeceased by her parents, Lois Vasey and Claude and Agnes Vasey; her parents-in-law, William and Annie Lee; her brother Jerry and sister-in-law Wendy Vasey; and her sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Anne and Chick Billings. Nan was a talented seamstress that provided many of her skills to the community during her child rearing days. She also enjoyed knitting and took pride in the things she created while passing down her skills to her family along the way. Camping was a huge part of Nans life and a love that her children have continued to pass on down through the generations. Many trips were spent not only with family but with great friends that appreciated a good time around the fire roasting marshmallows and singing campfire songs. Many winter nights were kept warm at the Elora Curling Club surrounded by a hearty group and lots of laughter. Nan worked for many years at the local LCBO, where she took pride in helping build an extensive wine selection. Her interests were many. There was always a book to be read, a crossword puzzle to be completed, or a walk to be had. Nan especially loved bringing family and friends together around the table. She was a great cook, especially known for her delicious lasagna and Hummingbird cake. Her kitchen was a gathering place filled with good food, laughter, and conversation. Cooking was one of the many ways Nan showed her love, and the memories of those meals will be treasured by her family and friends. One of Nan’s favourite places was the family cottage in Barrow Bay, where many wonderful memories were made over the years. It was a special place for gatherings, laughter, and time spent together. Above all, Nan was devoted to her family. She will be remembered for her lively spirit, her perfectly timed remarks, and the love she had for those closest to her. Her absence will be deeply felt, but her stories, laughter, and memories will live on for generations. The family would like to extend their heartfelt thanks to Nan’s extended family at Wellington Terrace and to Dr. Stickney for the kindness, compassion, and care shown to her. A celebration of Nan’s life will take place at a later date. Memorial donations may be made to the Alzheimer Society or to the Music Program at Wellington Terrace (please indicate “Music Program” with your donation). Your generosity is sincerely appreciated by the family. Arrangements are entrusted to the Graham A. Giddy Funeral Home. 

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Jean Lavina Stinson of Guelph passed away on Tuesday, October 27, 2026, in her 87th year. Sister of Shirley Coates-Male of Wasaga Beach, Irving Stinson of Guelph, and John and Beth Stinson of Moorefield. Fondly remembered by her nieces and nephews  Cheryl & Doug Louch, Donna & Andy Wood, Lorelei Stinson & Dave McEachran, Carolyn Crawford & Derek Dubreuil, and Kevin Stinson & Meggen Janes, great-nieces and great-nephews Michael Crawford & Keri Cadger, Sarah Crawford & Jake Ouellett, Tyler Stinson, Lucas Stinson, and Dandy McEachran, and by her great-great-niece and great-great-nephews, Maddie, Liam, Finnegan, and Jaxson. Predeceased by her parents Albert and Marjorie (Connell) Stinson, sister Alberta Stinson, sister-in-law Janet Stinson, and brothers-in-law Hugh Coates and Ralph Male. After retirement, Jean continued to keep abreast of the changes in the editorial field. She considered herself to be a lifelong learner. In addition to being a book lover she also enjoyed the arts attending plays and concerts. She was an avid follower of current events and world politics. She was a devoted fan CBC radio and CBC news. She enjoyed spending time with her extended family. The funeral service will be held at the Hardy-Lee Funeral Home, Harriston, on Thursday, November 12 at 11:30am. Interment in Harriston Cemetery. Memorial donations to Hospice Wellington would be appreciated.  Online condolences may be left at www.hardyleefuneralhome.com

Goodbyes can still be beautiful. Marion passed away peacefully on her 95th birthday. Her smile radiated happiness. She let us all shine. Survived by her family: daughters and their spouses Cynthia (Greg Howell) and Marilyn (Stephen Boehm), grandchildren, Lauren (Dylan Riches), Rae Brynn (Jonathan Gatto), Emily (Ben Turner), Hannah (Kurtis Wright), Eric Boehm (Anna Lin) and Jessie Purgavie, seven great grandchildren, her brother George Leslie, and his family Sharon, Sandra (Ken Ferris), Graham (Karen), Gerald (Reina Dam) and their families. Predeceased by husband of 24 years Earl Osborne (2020), first husband of 31 years Mac Neilson (1987), and daughter Joyce Purgavie (2013). Fondly remembered by Earl Osborne’s family into which she was welcomed 30 years ago; Kathryn (John Mountstephen), Steve (Linda), John (Susan), Janice (Frank Stokman), Shirley (Rudy Fiebiger), Vernon (Ornella), and their families. Thanks to the caregivers and team members at the Village of Riverside Glen for their dedicated care and kindness over the past six years. Moving in during the pandemic was challenging for Mom and our family, however the outings, music, art and gardening activities offered always sparked her interest, participation, joy and smiles. A private graveside service was held at Belsyde Cemetery in Fergus, Ontario. Arrangements entrusted to the Wall-Custance Funeral Home & Chapel 519-822-0051 / www.wallcustance.com. A tree will be planted in memory of Marion-Etta Neilson-Osborne in the Wall-Custance Memorial Forest.

Michael Anthony Turnnidge, age 101, passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 1, 2026. Born in Brighton, England, Mike lived an extraordinary life spanning more than a century. His journey took him through England, Kenya and eventually Canada, with each country holding a special place in his heart. Throughout his life, Mike worked as a teacher, sharing his knowledge and wisdom with generations of students. He made a lasting difference in the lives of so many people he taught and met along the way. The lives he touched and the people he taught will forever carry a piece of him with them. Mike married the love of his life, Sheila Rose Turnnidge, in England. Together they shared 42 wonderful years of marriage and built a life and family across three countries. Sheila departed this world far too early. Mike will be lovingly remembered by his four children: Steve Turnnidge; Penny Maxwell and her husband, Dave Whalley; Simon Turnnidge and his wife, Nadine; and Caroline Mouawad and her husband, Tony. He also leaves behind seven grandchildren and eleven great-grandchildren, along with extended family and many friends. A man of Roman Catholic faith, Mike's life will be remembered with love and gratitude. After so many years apart, may he now be reunited with his beloved Sheila Rose, together again in God's loving embrace, resting in eternal peace. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Joseph Parish (760 St. David Street North, Fergus) on Thursday, November 12, 2026, at 1:00pm In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Canadian Cancer Society would be greatly appreciated by the family. To view Mike’s memorial page and leave online condolences, please visit www.grahamgiddyfh.com.

ABOYNE – Bold and bright, new poppies stand at attention on the front lawn of the Wellington County Museum and Archives.

The corrugated plastic cutouts have replaced the original wooden post and rectangular plastic markers that have been used in the Wellington County Remembers display each November for the past 12 years.

Wellington Place administrator Jana Burns said the old markers were cumbersome, worn and had a “cemetery feel.”

Some of the placards, bearing the names of the more than 500 of the county’s war dead, also had misspellings or duplicate names.

“I proposed doing a full redesign,” museum technician Julia Barclay told the Advertiser.

She sketched a new poppy design so the front lawn would look less like a cemetery of white crosses and more like a local Flanders field.

“When you’re on [Wellington Road 18] facing the museum it will look more like a field of poppies,” Barclay said.

The new design also incorporates easier-to-install metal stakes. Instead of hammering each wooden post into the ground, the new stakes can be planted by standing on the frame. What used to take an entire day is now done in a morning.

Each marker is arranged alphabetically, bearing the name of the fallen, where they were from, the date of their death, where they are buried and the conflict in which they served.

In total, 502 markers are arranged by municipality in eight rows on both sides of the lawn, spaced 19 feet apart.

LEFT: Kelly Dixon positions a poppy cutout on a stake. MIDDLE: From left, Hailey Johnston, Emily Benedict and Kelly Dixon assemble a row of placards and stakes. RIGHT: Kelly Dixon checks names on the placards against the county's records.

New this year, are two additional markers with a scannable QR code directing users to the museum and archives’ “Wellington County Remembers” online database with photos, letters and military service records attached to each of the names. The database has received 1,918 visits in the past two years, according to the county.

Barclay’s predecessor, Phil Dietrich, came up with the idea for the display and the original design.

“It was supposed to be a one-time thing,” Barclay said. “It was so well-received, they kept doing it.”

Burns said the total cost of the new poppy placards and hardware was $16,692.

Held in partnership with the county’s Legion branches, a Nov. 9 service, from 10:30am to 12:30pm, will honour locals lost in both World Wars, the Korean War, Afghanistan and in service with NATO.

On Nov. 10, from 5:30 to 6pm, the public can place a candle at each of the new markers, which will remain lit throughout Remembrance Day until the morning of Nov. 12.

The museum and archives will be closed on Remembrance Day, Nov. 11.

PUSLINCH – Local police are looking for help to identify two people they say are were involved in fraudulent vehicle transactions at a local dealership.

Wellington County OPP officials say that on Oct. 13 a man (suspect two, above) came to a Puslinch dealership to take possession of a vehicle that had been applied for online. 

“The suspect presented fraudulent identification documents to secure financing and obtain the vehicle,” police stated in a press release.

“The fraudulent identification displayed the suspect’s photograph but contained the personal information of an unknowing victim.”

Police say a woman (suspect one, above) pulled off the same scam at the same dealership on Sept. 29.

“In addition, police learned that a third suspected fraudulent vehicle financing transaction involving the same dealership and a third male suspect (suspect three, above) was in progress at the time of reporting,” police stated.

OPP officials say they believe the instances are connected and are seeking assistance in identifying the individuals involved. Investigators believe the suspects may be from Hamilton, Halton Region or the Greater Toronto Area.

GUELPH – A former youth counsellor has been sentenced to house arrest for sexually assaulting a teenage boy under her supervision at a residential treatment centre in Wellington County.

Jennifer Dean, 25, was charged in April 2025 with sexual assault, sexually touching an underage person and exploiting a young person by touching them sexually.

The charges stemmed from a November 2023 incident while she was working at the centre.

Last week, on Oct. 30, she pleaded guilty to one count of sexual assault and was sentenced to house arrest and a year of probation. The remaining two charges of sexual interference and exploitation were dropped.

Court heard Dean worked as a counsellor and case worker at the treatment centre between March 2023 and January 2024, when she was fired.

The Advertiser is not naming the centre to avoid identifying the victim, who cannot be named under a publication ban.

According to an agreed statement of facts, a boy, under 16 at the time, stayed at the centre for drug and mental health treatment from September to December 2023.

In early November of that year, he became upset and went to his bedroom, where Dean attended, rubbed his thigh sexually and offered a hug. They hugged briefly, and the two kept in contact into 2024 after he left the program.

Prosecutor Erica Quayle told court Dean was in a position of trust and authority over the boy.

She had previously been warned about her inappropriate behaviour, court heard, and it wasn’t the only time Dean had been charged due to her conduct with a resident.

She was found guilty in 2024 of assaulting a 16-year-old boy between Oct. 1 and Dec. 19, 2023, after she admitted to kissing and sexual touching with him while he lived at the centre.

But she wasn’t convicted in that case. The judge conditionally discharged Dean, meaning she avoids a conviction if she follows the rules of a three-year probation term.

And a past case only counts against someone who reoffends after the court has dealt with them. Because both of the offences occurred in late 2023, before the outcome of the 2024 case was known, Dean was treated in the eyes of the court last week as a first-time offender.

The Crown and defence jointly recommended Dean be sentenced to house arrest, with six months of confinement at home and GPS monitoring, followed by four months under an 8pm to 7am curfew starting at the end of April, and then a year of probation.

“There’s significant mitigating factors which get us to this sentence, but it’s still very aggravating, which is why it’s still a jail sentence but we’re at the point where it could be served in the community,” said defence lawyer Amy Sweet.

Court heard Dean struggles with mental health issues and now regularly sees a psychotherapist.

“I feel guilty, ashamed and disappointed with myself. I was the adult and I did not act like it,” Dean stated in a pre-sentence report read aloud in court by the defence.
“I betrayed and disregarded all of my personal values. I’m angry with myself and remorseful for my actions.”

In January, Dean gave birth to a daughter, who suffers from medical complications.

Court heard her daughter has given Dean a “new perspective on life.”

“[The victim] was not only a child, but he’s somebody else’s son. I not only broke his trust, but I put hardship on his mom as well,” Sweet said, quoting from the report.

Dean will serve the house arrest term in Rockwood, where she lives with her husband, daughter and parents.

She can leave the home for her daughter’s medical appointments, for four hours on Friday afternoons for necessities, and for her work as a pharmacy sales clerk after returning from maternity leave in the new year.

For 10 years, Dean will be on the sex offender registry, and cannot possess weapons.

She has also been ordered not to have contact with anyone under 16, except her child or incidental to her work, and she cannot be where children under 16 are present, unless supervised by someone 18 or older, or in the company of her own child.

Dean did not address the court when offered the chance.

Justice Matthew Stanley said a traditional jail sentence would deprive Dean’s infant daughter of support.

He added the sentence was low but appropriate, citing Dean’s youth, guilty plea, counselling and mental health, and that the offence was a single incident.

PUSLINCH – Two trailers were damaged by fire at McClintock’s Trailer Resort the evening of Oct. 31.

The call came in around 7:30pm, with the Puslinch and Cambridge fire departments responding, along with Wellington OPP.

“We arrived to a single trailer fully involved,” said Puslinch fire chief Michael Chant, adding the fire spread to trailers on either side but firefighters got those out pretty quickly.

“One of those sustained heat damage but the other didn’t,” he said.

“People did lose their belongings but the fire was minor in nature.”

None of the trailers were occupied and no injuries were reported.

The fire was deemed not suspicious, according to an OPP press release.

“It was likely electrical but the cause hasn’t been determined yet,” Chant said.

GUELPH – Four county councillors have put their names forward to become the next warden of Wellington County. 

Puslinch Mayor James Seeley, Minto Mayor Dave Turton, Ward 2 councillor Earl Campbell and Ward 6 councillor Diane Ballantyne all declared their interest in the top spot on county council at an Oct. 29 meeting.

Current Warden Chris White said he has “no ambitions” to continue in the role next term. 

“My ambitious days are over,” he said adding he “definitely” wants to stay on the Wellington-Dufferin-Guelph Public Health board of health.

Wellington County councillors will elect the next warden at the inaugural meeting of the new council on Nov. 20. 

Councillor Matthew Bulmer and Mary Lloyd shared an interest in chairing the joint Wellington-Guelph social services and land ambulance committee.

“We are in a tenuous space with potentially very new people and councillors ... and our relationship with neighbours in Guelph seems to be at risk,” Lloyd said.

“I find myself as more of a median person that likes to have agreements and work together on that table.”

She also sees herself continuing as a member of the information, heritage and seniors committee.

Councillor Jeff Duncan hopes to stay on as economic development committee chair while councillor Steve O’Neill has set his sights on administration, finance and human resources committee chair.

Councillor David Anderson would like to continue sitting on the social services committee, as “I recognize (the) individuals coming forward will be good chairs,” he said referring to Bulmer and Lloyd.

Anderson said he is also interested in a seat on the OPP detachment board and on the board of health. 

Councillor Gregg Davidson, current chair of the roads committee, said he hopes to stick with engineering, with council’s permission.

Councillor Doug Breen currently chairs the information, heritage and seniors committee, but was not in attendance to share his wishes for the next term of council.

WELLINGTON COUNTY – The past few months here have been tragic for youth.

On Oct. 31, four teenagers died in a car crash in Puslinch, and two were seriously injured.

On Sept. 19, 16-year-old Puslinch resident Nash Dunlop was struck by a minivan in Centre Wellington and died.

And on June 12, Susy, Maggie, Sara, Helena and Peter Doerksen, aged four to 12, died in a crash in Mapleton. 

These incidents are stark reminders of the challenges young people face when coping with sudden and devastating loss, says clinical psychologist, speaker and educator Dr. Natasha Williams.

The impact reaches far beyond their immediate families, she told the Advertiser – “It affects classmates, friends, teammates, neighbours; the ripple effect is going to be quite profound."

She added, “Having a loss like this can really shake up [a teenager’s] world,” including their sense of security and safety, and grief can manifest in many ways, including sadness, anger and disbelief.

“It affects every aspect of your being: cognitively, physically, spiritually, emotionally,” said Jodi Pereira, executive director at Nightingale Centre for Grieving Children, Youth and Families in Guelph. 

“It’s common to experience lots of feelings of hopelessness, to feel like they might be a burden, or to start to struggle in school,” added Thomas Wright, a psychotherapist specializing in grief at Full Circle Psychotherapy in Fergus. 

Fear is also a common part of the grieving process, he said.

Supporting someone through grief is not about finding the perfect words, Williams said: it’s about being “available, attentive and emotionally present,” and reminding them they are not alone. 

For parents, it’s about sitting with their teens and opening up a conversation about how they feel, added Wright.

That doesn’t mean “fixing” their grief or helping them “get over it,” said Pereira.

"It’s not something that can be fixed – it’s something you have to process [and] work through.” 

Williams said people often avoid talking about loss, but it’s valuable to give teens opportunities to ask questions and express themselves.

“One thing we know about grief and loss is that talking about it makes it better, not worse,” said Wright. “The way we can move through grief is to come together and connect … talking about our sadness and grief will help us learn how to move forward.”

Teenagers may say they don't want to talk, Williams said, and it’s important to respect that, while letting them know the door is open and reminding them they have adults in their lives who want to support them when they’re ready.  

Consistency in checking in and circling back is important too, Pereira added.

Williams suggests avoiding well-meaning statements such as “everything will be okay,” and instead acknowledging that what happened was horrible.  

It helps to recognize it’s okay to feel sad, and that everyone grieves and mourns, Wright said. He encouraged adults to talk about their own feelings and to navigate hard conversations with curiosity.  

Pereira recommends modelling by identifying and naming emotions: “‘I’m feeling angry today … I’ve been thinking about the person that died a lot, and this is what is coming up for me.’” 

She said, “Being vulnerable and acknowledging the truth … can be hard, but it’s also really important.”  

“As we grieve, we are processing our life changing … we are learning how to move through life without that,” Wright said. 

He recommends creating opportunities to mourn together, such as setting times to gather, “remember that person and be grateful for what they gave to us.” 

“It’s important to remember the death, but it’s particularly important to remember the person in their life, their impact, and to celebrate … who they were,” Pereira said.  

She suggested sharing a story, memory or photo. “It’s extremely healthy to remember – to say their name … to create rituals and traditions to remember them. Remembering is part of the process of healing.” 

“It’s not just about the death, it’s about finding ways to continue to bond with the person that died, finding ways to remember them and … bring them forward with you,” she said.  

Another important aspect of coping with grief is finding hope, Wright said. 

A tragedy is like a front page article, but inside the newspaper are many more stories highlighting positive things happening that can bring hope, Wright said.   

“Grief can be very lonely and isolating,” Pereira said. 

“Some teenagers may withdraw [and want] time alone. Others may want to be preoccupied with friends,” Williams said. 

Seeking support from peers can be a crucial part of teenagers navigating loss, she said, especially when friends get together to reminisce and share their feelings.

Often, grieving people feel that no one else feels the way they do, but peer support can show them they are not alone, Williams said. 

Pereira said one teenager who was initially reluctant to attend a grief group said that before joining, her grief made her feel “like an alien – ‘but coming to groups I found … people that understand me and that I feel connected to.’” 

It is also important for adults supporting teenagers through grief to have their own peer supports, Williams said, noting, “Parents, teachers, coaches and other caregivers cannot pour from an empty cup.”

“You don’t need to feel like Superman or Superwoman and have all the answers – you need support as well,” she said. 

The therapists all described grief as dynamic, not linear, and said everyone will have different timelines.  

“You will be forever changed by your grief and your experience with it,” Pereira said. “You may feel particularly affected one day, and then the next you are feeling okay, and three weeks later have a terrible day again."

This is particularly true for young people, she noted. For adults, grief can feel like an overwhelming, all-consuming ocean that they cannot escape, whereas for youth, grief can feel more like “puddle jumping."

Pereira said, “Kids seem to intuitively understand that they have to get out of it, so move in and out of it more freely. 

“The puddle doesn’t feel any less than it would feel like for an adult in the ocean – it feels all-consuming – and then they jump out of the puddle and experience joy or happiness. Then, they are overwhelmed by grief (and are) right back in that puddle again.” 

Grieving as a teenager can also feel different because teenagers are in the midst of developing their own sense of identity. They see themselves reflected in others, and are likely to question their own mortality after seeing another youth die, Wright said. 

“When events like this take place – so spontaneous, so unexpected – it kind of pokes a hole in the guise that we have of immortality for youth.” 

So part of the mourning process is facing the “existential grief that we all can die unexpectedly,” he said. 

Grief in itself is not a mental health disorder, Williams said; it’s a normal and natural response to loss. 

But if emotional distress is persistent or intensifying, that can be a sign that professional support is needed, she said.

If a teenager is experiencing thoughts of self-harm, they should be connected with professional support immediately. 

If grief overwhelms their ability to cope, disrupts their sense of safety or leads to heightened feelings of vulnerability, professional support may be needed, Williams said. 

Grieving teens may show symptoms connected to post-traumatic stress disorder, she said, such as intrusive thoughts, nightmares, difficulty sleeping, avoidance, difficulty concentrating, anxiety, panic, social withdrawal, feeling hopeless, a decline in academic performance or reluctance to participate in extracurriculars.  

These symptoms can also manifest as headaches, stomach aches, anger, irritability, increased isolation or a feeling that they do not have a future themselves, Wright said.

Periera added the following to the list of signs that more help is needed: verbal outbursts, numbness, withdrawal, hypervigilence, self-medicating with prescriptions (including taking too much or not taking them), increased use of drugs or alcohol and unsafe or reckless behaviour.    

“If we are not functioning – not doing the things we need to do like eating, sleeping, taking care of our bodies, connecting with those we love; and it’s progressive – not starting to improve … that’s a time that we want to reach out,” Wright said. 

“As parents and educators, I think we need to pay attention to some of these things,” Williams said, and connect these teens with additional support.

Mental health services often come with long waitlists, and Williams said while waiting for support, teens should have safe adults they can turn to such as a parent, family member, coach or community member.

“If they have a certain faith, having that ability to speak to their pastor, priest, imam, or any type of clergy [can] be important when you are navigating these waitlists and trying to seek professional help,” Williams said. 

It is very important that the teenager is heard, she added.  

For immediate support, contact:

• Here 24/7 at 1-844-437-3247 or here247.ca;
• Kids Help Phone at 1-800-668-6868 or kidshelpphone.ca;
• Victim Services at vswguelph.on.ca; or
• Waterloo-Wellington Bereavement Support Services at tinyurl.com/wwbereavement.

GUELPH – County council had no further comments last week about a 10-year housing and homelessness plan that was presented to the joint Guelph-Wellington social services committee in September. 

The goal is to ensure everyone in Wellington-Guelph can find and maintain appropriate, safe and affordable housing. 

The plan was deferred to the Oct. 29 council meeting after certain members stated the report lacked firm targets and they were not provided enough time to review it.

“The comments focus on areas where additional clarification, context or refinement may strengthen the final document and support a shared understanding of roles, implementation expectations and anticipated outcomes,” states an Oct. 13 letter to housing staff from committee member and Guelph Mayor Cam Guthrie.

The city “is seeking additional information on references in the draft plan related to future actions to support affordable housing, including community and supportive housing,” the letter continues.

According to the plan, homelessness has increased “significantly,” from an average of 186 individuals in 2023 to 243 in 2024 and remaining above 263 in 2025.

Guelph has a “moderate” rate of low income (8.2 per cent) residents, while several rural communities experience higher rates, notably Wellington North (12.1%) and Minto (10.7%). 

“The poverty rate among young children and youth is higher in Wellington North (14.4%) and Mapleton (12.8%),” the plan states.

County housing director Dave Purdy told council, “housing services conducted a community consultation [in] January and February of this year.”

The consultation process included four in-person sessions, an online survey and community group engagement sessions, which were all open to the public.

“This is an important step to the integrity of the plan, and therefore, the goals and actions identified in the plan through the community consultations and validation process captured the community input.

“At this point, these sections cannot change,” Purdy said. 

He added staff members feel the recent input is “in line with the plan itself and we will consider the recent feedback in the development of the housing services work plans.”

Council passed a motion to receive the correspondence on the 10-year housing and homelessness plan and refer it to staff. 

CENTRE WELLINGTON – It will be another year before the collapsed shed at the Elora Greenspace is demolished.

The township states in an Oct. 29 new release that it is continuing to work with Suncor, which owns the property, to coordinate permits and plans for the demolition.

The release states the demolition has been deferred to 2027, “to minimize disruption to residents, visitors and the many seasonal events taking place in and around Elora in November and December 2026.”

The shed, located at the corner of Metcalfe and Mill streets, collapsed on the afternoon of Feb. 24, 2025.

The structure underwent a structural assessment and has been deemed safe enough to survive this winter and next spring.

“Public safety remains the township’s priority as demolition plans are finalized,” the release states. 

“The township’s role is to ensure the work proceeds safely, with all required permits in place and minimal disruption to the community.” 

Once the shed is removed, “Suncor is working toward expanding the greenspace to provide more accessible outdoor space for residents and visitors to enjoy,” states the release. 

GUELPH – Oct. 29 marked the final county council meeting for four Wellington County councillors. 

During the meeting, Warden Chris White offered those leaving the opportunity to say a few words and introduce the next in line.

 “It’s a bittersweet day,” White said. “Some folks are returning and some folks are changing out positions.”

Current Wellington North Mayor and county councillor Andy Lennox was the first to speak.

“I look at all of you and all who have been elected as the chosen champions of your communities,” he said. “It’s been a true honour for me to have been the champion for Wellington North.”

Lennox served as mayor for 12 years and on township council for 16. He noted the experience was “rewarding” and one he will “dearly” miss.

Lennox introduced Steve McCabe, who has been a township councillor for almost 12 years, as the newly elected mayor of Wellington North. 

County councillor Shawn Watters was elected Centre Wellington mayor in 2022 and has served various local and county councils over the past 25 years.

“We are in very tough times right now [and] I hate to say this, but it’s only going to get worse,” he said. “But we are much stronger when we work together.”

Watters introduced current Centre Wellington councillor Bronwynne Wilton as the new township mayor, stating, “She is a very capable person.”

“She will represent our community very well and will be a huge asset,” he added.

Current Erin Mayor Michael Dehn, who was first elected mayor in 2022, was emotional during his speech.

“I want to express my sincere gratitude for the support, guidance and camaraderie you have shared with me throughout my term,” Dehn said.

He also thanked county staff for “your tireless professionalism, expertise and patience.”

“Wellington County is in remarkably capable hands,” Dehn added, before introducing Dusty Scott, who was recently elected Erin mayor, as a “true Erinite.”

Ward 3 county councillor Campbell Cork was the last to say farewell.

“I came to understand over these eight years the true meaning of why staff are certainly the county’s most treasured asset,” he said. 

Cork has been a councillor since 2018 and has “truly loved every minute of it.” 

“I’m looking forward to some new adventures in my life after politics,” he added, before welcoming Dan Yake, councillor-elect for Ward 3.

“He’s a true Mount Forester ... and comes with years of experience on local council. I know he’ll do a good job here for the county,” Cork said. 

All councillors also took the opportunity to thank White for his time as warden.

PUSLINCH – A vehicle carrying six teenagers hit a guardrail and crashed into a ravine here early on Saturday morning. 

A Milton girl, 15, Mississauga girl, 17, and two 19-year-old males, one from Mississauga and one from Brampton, were pronounced dead at the scene.

Two others were transported to hospital with serious injuries. 

A Mississauga girl, 17, sustained life-altering injuries and a 16-year-old girl, also from Mississauga, is in non-life-threatening condition.  

Police, who say they do not believe there were enough seatbelts in the vehicle for the number of occupants, are investigating the cause of the collision, including whether speed, alcohol or drugs were factors.

It is not known where the teens were coming from or headed to, and police would not say whether any were from the same families. 

The single-vehicle crash took place at about 1:35am on Oct. 31 on Watson Road South, between Maltby Road East and Wellington Road 34, east of Guelph in Puslinch Township. 

That stretch of road will remain closed while the damaged guardrail is replaced. 

“We are examining all available evidence to determine what occurred in the moments leading up to the collision,” said Wellington OPP detachment commander inspector Karen Medeiros during a press conference at the Rockwood station on Sunday morning.

West Region OPP superintendent Wendy Burrow said, “We stand alongside all of those who are mourning this profound loss while the investigation continues.

“We remain focused on supporting those affected and ensuring that every effort is made to provide answers."

Medeiros called the crash a “devastating event that has deeply impacted multiple families, schools, friend groups and communities across southern Ontario. 

“Four young people have lost their lives in a matter of moments.”

“Families have been forever changed,” Medeiros later added, her voice shaking.

"And an entire community is searching for answers. Our responsibility is to ensure those answers are based on facts, evidence and a thorough investigation.”

She acknowledged the first responders on scene, including police officers, firefighters, paramedics, dispatchers and victim services personnel, noting their "professionalism, compassion and dedication ... has been exceptional."   

Police are asking anyone with information, dash camera footage and other video recordings to contact the Wellington County OPP at 1-888-310-1122.

Medeiros said, “Even information that might seem insignificant could prove valuable to investigators as they piece together the events ... 

“This tragedy is a heartbreaking reminder of the lives that will be forever changed by a serious collision. We urge all road users to please remain vigilant and travel safely.” 

OPP officials say there has been an increase in fatal crashes in the last couple of years.

In June five children died in a crash in Mapleton Township, in March two teens and three adults died in a Norfolk collision and in May 2025 four teens and one adult died in a crash near London.